You just got off the phone.
You have received the news.
News you never ever wanted to hear.
Someone you know has the “C” word.
Or it is you…
You heard it but it could not be real!
It can’t be.
How you must feel…
I felt it too.
You are numb. In shock!
You may want to cry. You may feel nothing.
You may want to hit something or scream out loud.
You put your hands to your face and bow your head.
NO! It can’t be Cancer!
“What do I do now?”
This is the question to be answered from this blog.
Come sit and let us hold on to one another.
This is not only for the newly diagnosed.
It is for the neighbor who wants to know how to help a little.
A friend who wants to know how to help a lot.
A child who feels something is wrong but does not understand and wants to know what to do.
A husband who does not know how to comfort when he is trying to believe it himself.
A parent trying to make it easier for their child but in shock.
A brother, father, or son who does not know how to talk about it if it is female related.
I am a cancer survivor! I have worked very hard to get through my cancer experience using my own gifts, talents, and survival techniques. I am not a therapist, but I am an expert on living through it. This is a blog to share simple, uplifting tips and ideas with you and give you an invitation to share any uplifting ideas that helped you get through your journey.
What do I do now on this first day?
Here is what you can do today…
Tip #1: Be still and stay close to somone!
This is the beginning of one step…
take it slow.
You can do this!
My dear friends and followers,
I am taking this full virtual-space (Cancer Together; What do I do now?) and add it to my other blog-bowl;
to create a big messy gooey life recipe.
I offer you a spoon and hope you will dip in and take some tastes.
I am excited to also introduce to you a new blog on my passion; Preserving that mysterious and wonderful time called “childhood.” Please take a peek and send others.
This space will stay open offering my hand and heart as a continuous life preserver holding to you as you return back to posts.
find those pieces of HAPPY
you feel you have lost
cancer brick load.
I understand and acknowledge YOU.
Thank you for allowing me
to hold on to you
as my life saver.
I hope you will continue on my journey and enjoy…
This amazing little container can be a source for great fun besides tummy filling. It fits the palm of human hands so perfectly it makes us want to…
yep, throw it.
with my rambunctious, energetic family, I have actually acted on that thought and have encouraged healthy and legal “egg bombing” activities; particularly around Easter EGG-STRAVEGANZA time!
Some egg enthusiasts create confetti filled eggs and crack them on heads of friends or family for strange satisfaction but this eco-friendly family, date, or friend’s activity is so much more satisfying as you hurl these perfect filled egg sized bombs against trees, over ponds, in fields, out windows, over cliffs, at mountains, at self made NATURAL targets and NOT at people or people’s things!
*There is a disclaimer attached because I am not a biologist and wonder if it could create severe neurosis in birdies when they come to feast the treat and see parts of their cousin’s offspring shells amidst the bird seed. (I hope they have poor eye sight and don’t notice.)
Tap the top of the egg until you make a slight hole and dump out the contents in a cup, or bowl to make scrambled eggs later on.
Make a carton or two or three or five.
You will wish you had more!
While you let the eggs dry out in the carton go to your local store and purchase a small bag of bird seed. You probably have left over from the Random Acts of Kindness Date ideas in the past blog posts. (While you’re there get a tiny bag of grass seed for another Easter EGG-STRAVEGANZA activity; the grass-hair growing one)
When you return fill up the eggs with bird seed and place them back in the egg cartons.
Optional you can cover the hole with duct or masking tape but you don’t have to.
Isn’t that the coolest little container!
You have now created satisfying eco-friendly egg-bombs that can create some pretty fun memories for you and happy birds, mice, rats, squirrels and chipmunks and sometimes bears.
Don’t forget to go back to your kitchen which is a playground full of fun full-sensory experiments, messes, gadgets and family/friend/possible significant other fun.
Whip up the eggs and sit down to a warm meal together. Don’t forget to thank that hen for pushing out that perfect little container..bless her heart…and bumm!
Recipe Variations to regular scrambled eggs
(complimentary of Family Fun Cook Book, Pg, 21)
Cream Cheese and Chives Scrambled Eggs: Melt 1 T butter in saucepan. Beat two eggs together and stir in pan for one minute. Add 1-2 T cream cheese, cut into 1/2 in cubes and 4 fresh chives, snipped into pieces. Yummmm. I can smell a toasted blueberry bagel with strawberry cream cheese just sittin’ next to this on a dish!
Cheddar Cheese and Bacon: Don’t we do this anyway! Pfff! I don’t think we need directions…(Nuke bacon in the microwave between 2 paper towels for less mess and faster in the tummy)
Cottage Cheese and Dill: Add 1 heaping T. cottage cheese and 2 t. chopped dill to the nearly cooked scrambled eggs. The cottage cheese melts like regular cheese but it is light and creamy. Sooo good!
Tomato and Basil: Toss half a small, diced tomato and 1 to 2 t. chopped fresh basil into your scrambled eggs before serving. Add some cut melon or strawberries on the side, Oh my stomach is growling!
Salsa, cilantro, and sour cream: Mix 1-2 T salsa, 1 t. chopped fresh cilantro and 2 t. sour cream into scrambled eggs while cooking. Serve over warmed tortillas.
Or be silly and add food coloring to your egg mixture and eat your egg- color of choice.
HAVE FUN WITH IT
Be true to your authentic self even if your shoes have splatters of paint…
It brings happiness to the soul.
How do you find that self?
Go back to your childhood and remember back what you played when you were free to do anything you wanted. And discover a version of it now.
This is me completing a mural for the children’s area at the homeless shelter right before winter. A group of children began it this past summer…